Welcome!

Deidre Pilcher, MS, LCMFT

I believe that relationships are largely the key to how we experience life. In relationships with others, we experience the full range of human emotions and understand more fully who we are. Through this lens, I enjoy working with couples and individuals on their journey to leading rich and fulfilling lives as their most authentic and connected selves.

Please don’t hesitate to reach out! I’d be happy to answer any questions and begin the process of healing and reconnection as soon as possible. I encourage couples to attend in-person sessions whenever possible, as it allows us the best environment for connection, though I also have a Telehealth option.

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About Me

I believe in doing my own work. I invest in myself and my relationships in many of the same ways I work with my clients. I am a partner, a mother, a daughter, a sister, and a loyal friend. My pronouns are she/her.

I grew up in Maine and enjoy all things New England except the cold. After spending the first 18 years of my life in the same bedroom of the same house, I have spent much of my adult life moving all over the country. I settled in Maryland over 10 years ago and now consider it home.

I love music and concerts and enjoy west coast swing dancing, playing guitar, and watching sports, particularly football and soccer. I value nature and mindfulness and a good dose of casual humor.

Credentials
  • Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy
  • Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist (LCMFT) in Maryland
Additional Education and Certifications
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Externship
  • Graduate Certificate in Contemporary Theory in Couple and Family Systems
  • PREPARE/ENRICH Premarital and Intimate Relationship Program Facilitator
  • Trained in the CRAFT method of support for relationships impacted by substance use

My Philosophy and Approach

A Welcoming Space

I am dedicated to creating a welcoming space for people of all sexual orientations, gender identities, cultural backgrounds, spiritual and religious experiences, and relational styles to feel comfortable and accepted. I value authenticity, growth, presence, and learning from and with each other in our diverse life experiences.

Casual and Collaborative
I offer a casual and collaborative therapeutic environment where I work to create ever-increasing emotional safety for deep emotional exploration and expression. It is through this process that clients can enjoy increased self-awareness and acceptance, as well as trust, security, and deep intimacy in relationships.
Areas of Interest/Specialization
  • Couples Therapy
  • Relationship/Attachment Issues
  • LGBTQ and ENM Relationships
  • Relationships Impacted by Substance Use/Addiction